Friday, July 14, 2006

v. Serena Williams

Phew!! This is searingly honest!!



"Ms. Williams we are all interested in your new boyfriend".

"There is no new boyfriend. I stopped playing with boys when I stopped dating black guys. I have a new man in my life and yes, he's white".

"So you prefer to date white men instead of black guys?”

Let's be real. If you are a successful black female you only have two outside of your race or date other successful black females".

"Are you saying there are no successful black men to date?"

"Of course not but let's face it, if Oprah would date outside of her race she would be married with children now. The state of most black men is so low the only thing you can do is love them. Like a poor homeless dog. You can't expect it to protect you. You can only offer shelter and love and watch as our neighbor's pit bull protects his home and family. I, unlike Oprah, am not forced to stay within those boundaries. I was born into a new generation of black women".

"So Oprah is being forced to date Stedman?"

"All I can say is when you find a successful black women who is not married and does not have children it is because they refuse to accept the two choices. Some may go as far as marriage to a black guy but they realize divorce is inevitable so they do not have children. Or they have children with one and don't marry in order to preserve their wealth and good credit. Oprah is one of many who silently protests being stuck with such poor choices by refusing to marry and reproduce but you can see how much it hurts her. She's always giving away money to children's charities. I hope she makes the choice to marry a non-black soon so she can have a child of her own".

"But you have decided to accept the two choices?"

"Yes. I grew up in California around the two extremes of wealth. If I could only get myself to try the bisexual thing I would have been much happier in my relationships. Instead I dated black men. I loved many of them but they were just not suitable for marriage. Many of them were raised by women and had warped mentalities. So I finally had to date outside my race. When I moved to Miami, I accepted my status and dated men on my level".

"What do you mean by warped mentalities?"

"Well, where do I begin? Many of them were raised predominantly by Women and had this feminine/bisexual complex. Where they wanted to be treated like a female sometimes. For example, I would have the money & they would have the sex. I would teach them things. You know, all the things a woman likes a man to do, I would end up doing for them. Then if we would get into an argument, there would be a role reversal. All of a sudden, they would be the man wanting the respect of a king in his castle. Black men over the years have become less and less of value to black women both rich and poor. I predict in 10 years they will be obsolete. Now they serve little to no function and what little they can do, they don't want to do".

"Why 10 years?"

"That's when going to a fertility clinic to get impregnated by a sperm donor will become as common and accessible as the flu shot. Women who want sex will do it with whoever they want (girl, guy, rich, poor, white, black) and go to the bank (the sperm bank) when they are ready to have children. Even those who waited (like Oprah) will have fertilized eggs placed in-Vitro. That's the day the secret organization of women is waiting for. The day when men are 100% dis-empowered".

"Are you a part of that organization?"

"No. They're a mostly white group. Plus that day for black men is Practically here already. Black women are already raising 75% of the black population without a man. When fertility clinics become more affordable. Black women will be standing in line. It will be just like plastic surgery. Everyone laughed at Michael Jackson but it's becoming so popular now, that even poor blacks are getting work done...mostly breast reductions and liposuction".

"So do you want men to be dis-empowered?"

"Heck, no! That's why I am with a white man now. I want a man to be a man and I am not going to settle for less just to stay within racial boundaries. A Black man in my position wouldn't do it so why should I. Don't get me wrong, love black men. My father is black, I have dated black men all my life, and if I have a male child he will be part black. But my husband and I will raise him together so hopefully he will be a worthy choice for a worthy black female. Not the only choice, or "there's nothing better out there so I'll settle for this" choice.

When you are successful you want the best. The best food, clothes, places to live etc. I want the best man also.

"And you think the best man is a non-black man?"

"I think if there's a better choice for me, God would have shown me. I am in the public so I get to meet lots of people from all over the world athletes, celebs, etc. I am wealthy so I am invited and have traveled to the most prestigious events all over the world. Out of all those people, places and events....I had to choose the right man for me. Like it or not with very few exceptions) a white man is the only real choice for a successful black female.


she does make some valid points about men IN GENERAL ok? e.g our desire to abdicate our manly responsibilties until such a time as it suits us to put the pants back on.fellas, would you judge yourselves to be as manly as your dads were/are?


Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have heard of this interview b4 but I have trouble believing it. Serena doesn't strike me as one to say such things (from seeing her on other interviews, e.g on Oprah once). Did u actually c her on Montell saying these things or is this hearsay on ur part?

Fri Jul 14, 07:18:00 pm  
Blogger jkb said...

Serena seemed to be pained by her past relationships and I base that exclusively on her responses. Whatever her past maybe, generalization is a product of flawed observation on her part and uncalled for!

I agree most black males tend to be sooo immature, seemingly looking out to the world through thick drapes. i.e. This weird belief that a woman has to be a "birch" or "hoe" and thus treated as such is outright pathetic! Women have lived under male abuse & exploitation for ages (when our grandmas worked the fields, tended to animals, looked after all the humans and the households without returns) It is refreshing for us to be empowered in this new era. Atleast we can now choose our own partners, our own lifestyle and heck, careers...

However, with this empowerement we should be doing better, instead (as one suggested)the probable first black woman president is busy dancing nude on Jay Z's video and we have the audacity to complain of how black men treat us? Talk of hypocrisy!!

Fri Jul 14, 07:43:00 pm  
Blogger CountryBoyi said...

tell me, what meat doth this selena girl eateth? women & men alike: we all have our own faults. it's not that a particular race has consecrated flaws that it would that much hurt 2 marry from it. but well, since it can be fair that we accept what people stand for, believe in, well then, leave the selena girl alone!

Sat Jul 15, 12:37:00 pm  
Blogger savage said...

".... he leave your ass for a white girl."-GOLDDIGGER-Kanye West feat. Jammie Foxx.

In a way, I agree with her. For long successful black men(Kobe Bryant, Spike Lee,Dennis Rodman, Ice T) have chosen to marry white women and nobody has batted an eyelid and I believe in much the same way Black women should be free to do the same.

Sat Jul 15, 05:40:00 pm  
Anonymous Isis said...

Where y'all been under a rock? This fake internet hoax has circulating the internet for over two years now. It's been well established that it's faker than Michael Jackson's nose. Serena has a close relationship with her father who is black man. She thinks the world of black men and says she would only marry a black man.

Sat Jul 15, 11:09:00 pm  
Blogger Kenyanchick said...

I doubted this story as well (and, for the record, Montell's married to a white woman). What I wonder is, who makes this stuff up and circulates it? American race relations are such a complicated, messy business that it's not clear who would benefit from an article like this. Was it to discredit Serena? Find a way to dis black guys? Just plain piss people off?

Mon Jul 17, 01:40:00 pm  
Blogger Lovely Amphibian said...

it might well be a hoax and that would not be so suprising.the truth though is that there are some valid points in the argument. its true that we can be immature to a fault. its easy to pick up our arms and go to war over this crying segragation and blue murder, but we should ask ourselves if this is not a case of the truth being too hurtful.

Mon Jul 17, 04:45:00 pm  
Anonymous undo said...

I think serena gotta live the life she thinks will turn out good for her.

History will never blame her for waking up tomorrow saying otherwise. Most people live stereotype...what the hehe will a new one do...just create some news on the entertainment blogs! Or some no-good we told you so.

Life beyond stardom is a silent terror of choices, mostly made up of deciding to live like the crowd wants you to Or by the intrigue created by your defiance of scholarly attributes of a Star.

Mon Jul 17, 05:19:00 pm  
Blogger Lovely Amphibian said...

this is totally unrelated but...guys, just recognise Undo. dude, you deserve the respect.just the way you put your thoughts.

Tue Jul 18, 12:20:00 pm  
Blogger ish said...

did u guys know that a succesful black woman over the age of 40 in america is more likely to be killed by terrorists than she is to get married? interesting, eh?

Sun Jul 23, 01:56:00 pm  
Blogger LorMar said...

This was proven to be a hoax. Serena never made these statements.

Mon Oct 09, 01:38:00 am  
Blogger suttwa said...

This interview is a hoax. See the following links for details: & &

I had my doubts about the sincerity of the statements, but these sites proved my suspicions.

Thank you,

Thu Jun 07, 06:17:00 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This was Probably posted by a pussy sucking black girl or, one of "Them". God Help Us!.

Wed Jun 30, 09:53:00 pm  

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